Wednesday, 20 November 2013


It’s funny how, as children, we’re told that it’s what’s inside that counts; to treat others the way we want to be treated; not to judge others; and that it’s important to have role models. It’s also interesting how these refrains go out the window when we encounter someone who doesn’t quite see the world the same way we do.
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A lot of famous, inspirational men who we’ve looked up to, have dated or married women much younger than them. U.S. President Grover Cleveland, South African anti-apartheid activist Nelson Mandela, writer J.D. Salinger, artist Pablo Picasso, astronaut Buzz Aldrin, and silver screen royalty such as Humphrey Bogart, Laurence Olivier, Fred Astaire, Robert Redford, and Jerry Seinfeld are all examples of older men dating younger women.
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Sure, there are a number of stereotypes about older men dating younger women, but that does not mean they are true. Older men who date much younger women are not the bastards who left their wives in a desperate attempt to revive his checkered college years. Similarly, young brides are not all brainless wonders content with being eye candy.
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  On the other hand, if you’re an older man married to or wanting to date a younger woman just because she’s younger, then perhaps the stereotypes apply—in which case, you probably don’t care.
For the most part, older men dating younger women are looking for the same thing everyone is to find an intelligent, nice, and beautiful person they can connect with. As a result, a relationship between an older man and younger woman can be just as healthy as a relationship between two people the same age.
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  After all, relationships are more complicated just than one issue. If age was the litmus test for marital success, the divorce rate would be significantly lower.
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  Half your age-plus-seven rule: To avoid being embarrassed in public—and to stop people staring and snickering—it’s been suggested that our cultural dating rule of thumb says older men are not supposed to date women younger than half-their-age-plus-seven. For example, using this equation, a 45-year-old man shouldn’t date anyone younger than 29-and-a-half; though he can round up or down at his leisure—probably down.
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  Not surprisingly, some have suggested a similar equation that opens the door for older men dating even more. Instead of half-the-age-plus-seven, the other equation is that it will take seven years right side of the top and divide by two. This simple adjustment means a 45 year old could allegedly date a woman of only 19 and still avoid being discarded culture.
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  But really, when you think about it, no senior man looking to a younger woman and consider whether it complies with this rule is to admit, basically, it is more important to turn to those who are intolerant ageists to rejoice.
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  For relationships to succeed, couples need to: connect emotionally, physically, and spiritually; feel free to be themselves, be vulnerable, and know they can make mistakes and be accepted unconditionally. Couples also need to have fun, grow, and evolve together.
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  The last part is especially important for older men dating younger women. Why? Because you’re violating everyone’s concept of what an acceptable relationship is. Connecting and having fun means succeeding where others thought you’d fail.
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  Sadly, everyone seems to be preoccupied with the idea of age when it comes to older men dating younger women. A weird thing to obsess over when there are more men concerned about finding women based on their hair color, height, weight, eye color, and cup size; or being turned off because her toes are too long (or any other trivial physical trait).
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  Age is just a number. Older men date younger women. Some find their soul mates while others do not. But it’s worth the risk.
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Fecundity or more commonly referred as infertility can be cured in many ways. However, at first it is necessary to be diagnosed and proven. This is essential because it is not a plain problem which can be treated at home without the guidance of the expert doctor. So, your first and foremost step towards this direction should be to get proper medical tests and check-ups done so that it can be confirmed that you do have some reproductive problems. Because if you do, then there is no way of treating them at home.
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However, if it is not the case then you can do anything on your own. Many of the factors that are the barriers in the way of conceiving a child can be dealt quite easily. One of the most quiet and dominant factor that gets between is depression. Many of the men and women who are more career oriented lead a stressful life and thus may face problems in this concern. So, your first response should be to find out such possibility and try to reduce them by adopting a balanced lifestyle.
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If you are married and a parent, how is your sex life? (What do you mean, “What sex life?”) Depending on the age of your children and the size of your family, it might not be great. Many parents wish that they had more quality intimate time together. If that’s the case, there are some things you can do to make that happen. When it comes to intimacy, remember that more than just sex is involved.
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Intimacy happens everywhere, not just in the bedroom. Consider getting a babysitter (or a trusted friend or family member) for a few hours so you and your spouse can get out of the house and enjoy time alone. Yes, I’m talking about a date. Unfortunately, many married couples find themselves in a comfort zone that feels more like a friendship than a marriage. Dating is an easy way to prevent that from happening. If you are comfortable leaving your children with a trusted friend or relative overnight, you can even check into a hotel overnight for some more private time together. Wait! Overnight? How did we get there so quickly? What does this mean? It means that in addition to enjoying a traditional date, you can also have a sexual night of privacy. Along those lines, consider approaching the parents of your children’s friends. Talk with them making a monthly arrangement for overnight sleepovers. Let them keep your kids for one night and you can do the same for them. This approach is nice, as you are likely to feel comfortable leaving your children in the care of another parent. Your children will also enjoy a “kid’s night” as well, so it a lovely situation all around. Since all parents find it difficult to seek privacy and intimacy, an arrangement like this could work well all around.
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Although dating is important to your relationship, be realistic. Not every night can be a date night, but there are still ways that you can be romantic and intimate at home. A simple hug or kiss in passing lets each other know that the passion is still there, without making your children feel uncomfortable or out of place. (And, as an aside, children n aside, children who grow up watching their parents being loving toward each other tend to be more loving themselves, and learn that affection is natural, appropriate, and acceptable.)
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Another way to keep the romance and intimacy alive throughout the course of a day is the use of text messages. Send your spouse a sexy and seductive text message. Let them know that you can’t wait until they arrive home. Even if your partner is sitting across the room from them, send them a quick message. A handwritten love note can be just as effective. (Tuck it in a coat pocket, briefcase, lunch tote, etc.) If you are willing to be a little creative, as parents can still have a happy and healthy sex life.
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Yes. There are both medicinal & surgical procedures to increase penis size. The medicinal procedure is to massage with Sri Gopal Taila (oil).
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There are two surgical procedures. One is the Biharin Procedure, the other, Fat Injection.
The Biharin Procedure involves cutting the ligament that secures the base of the penis to the body. This adds one-half to two inches of length. The down side is that an erection no longer points 'up' because the penis is no longer anchored to the body.
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Fat Injection is when fat is removed from the back of the thighs and injected into the body of the penis to make it thicker. The down side here is that since the body rejects a large portion of the injection, the procedure may need to be repeated several times. As with any surgical procedure, each operation carries with it a severe risk of infection.
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According to ancient Tantric beliefs, men can add another dimension to the full-body orgasm by trying to have orgasms without ejaculating. It was thought that when a man ejaculates, he expends energy that he needs, and if a man can retain his semen, he would have more energy to continue being sexual with a woman for a longer time.

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We know today this is a myth. Even if a man ejaculates it does not mean that he cannot continue a sexual encounter. In fact, sexual stimulation often continues for a long time after a man ejaculates and loses his erection. Even so, some men who are devout followers of Tantra still try to withhold ejaculation. It is difficult to say whether or not this is possible. The male sex organs have two separate functions, so it is possible for a man to have a dry orgasm. In order to do this he would most likely need years of advanced training in Tantra to master meditation techniques train his body to physically withhold ejaculation, as it is not a naturally occurring state. Attempting this can cause bladder or prostate problems, sexual problems, psychological issues, or frustration and anxiety. Since the main point of Tantric sex is to enjoy the pleasure of sex, it would seem that you should just enjoy what feels good instead!
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As discussed above the production of two hormones during pregnancy leads to the morning sickness. It is not an abnormal activity and happens with almost 80% of the woman. Traditionally, the life style and dietary modification is supportive in treatment of mild cases of morning sickness in pregnancy. The dietary advice include the eating of small portions of foods at frequent period,  eating bland low-fat foods, and  upon arising  of  the symptoms by ingesting crackers, dry toast and dry cereals.

If by any chance the nausea and vomiting aggravates you must consult your GP or midwife, and they will prescribe a medic for you, and in the extreme case of severe vomiting, hospital treatment is often needed where they inject fluids through drip directly into a vein.

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The number of same-sex couples who end their civil unions rose 20 percent last year, seven years after its introduction in 2005. Overall there were 794 solutions in 2012, nearly 60 percent of who were female couples, figures from the Office for National Statistics show (ONS).

In the seven years since homosexual couples can get civil associations, 3.2 percent of male unions ended in solution, compared with 6.1 percent of female partners.

Sociologists believe that lower rates of ‘divorce’ among gay men reflect a trend of women commit sooner and have higher expectations for a relationship. Women in civil associations marry at an average age of 37.6, compared with men, whose average age is 40. Erzsebet Bukodim, a sociologist at the University of Oxford, said: "In heterosexual marriage, the divorce rate is higher if you enter marriage at a very young age. That could be one reason why we are seeing this [hig dissolution rate for women] in civil partnerships. "

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Gunnar Andersson, professor of demography at Stockholm University, has found in successive studies that women in Norway, Sweden and Denmark are twice as likely to dissolve their civil partnerships as men. He said: “This reflects trends in a heterosexual marriage because women are more prone to say they want to marry - but they’re also more likely to initiate a divorce. Women usually have higher demands on relationship quality, that’s often been said in studies. Even if you control for age there is still a trend of more women ending partnerships than men.”

Early figures show British women in heterosexual relationships are more likely to file for divorce than men. Women took divorce in two thirds of cases in the UK in 2011.
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According to Jane Czyzselska, editor of the lesbian magazine, DIVA, “Culturally women have been more conditioned to be focused on marriage than men. The stereotype of the lesbian couple who takes a U-Haul on their second date, move in and get cats is there for a reason. Due to the cultural conditioning that we have, women do seem to be committing faster.”

Civil associations increased 3.6 percent in 2012, with 7,037 taking place. The biggest increase was in Northern Ireland, where 13 percent took place, with 101 ceremonies.

Late last year there were 120,908 people in a same-sex marriage, which is "much higher" than the Government Equalities Office originally scheduled. They thought there would be between 11,000 and 22,000 civilian partners in Britain in 2010, but there were more than 79,000 earlier this year - and now are ten times more.

A quarter of all civil partnerships taking place in London and Westminster were the local authority civil unions in 2012. Brighton and Hove saw the majority of women who enter civil unions between same sex, with 101 registered associations.
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